Adultery can not only lead to a loss of your Spouse's trust and respect it can also lead to bigger complications such as Divorce.
Most importantly we should put our trust in God and focus on him when temptations arises.1 Corinthians 10:13
If you or your Spouse are unhappy in your Marriage the first person that you should discuss this with is with one another. If you feel that your issues can not be resolved you should seek help from a Marriage professional and/or Pastor.
Marriage is a labor of love, it takes work, time, and commit to allow it to grow. I hope you are able to use these insights to create and/or maintain your "Loving Lasting Marriage". In addition, Pray together and Seek God together if you are seeking your Loving Lasting Marriage.