Love
Stories, each married couple has one. Love
Grows. I often find myself
even before I began my blog, asking my friends how they meet their spouse. I
find it intriguing the varying ways people find their spouse. Most stories if
not all can be tied to fate, no not fate,
but God.
My relationship began with a prayer before we even met. A prayer
that I would find my soul mate, helpmate, and life mate. My husband is not
perfect but I truly believe that God made him just for me. I met my husband
right when I needed him the most, in high school. That may seem weird but true.
We needed one another.
From
high school sweet hearts to a relationship that has lasted 11 and a half years.
We have been married for 4 and a half years, we have already been through so
many obstacles but we are still in Love, happy, and continuing to help one
another.
Over
the next three days I will share with you three Love Stories. Each a little different
but demonstrates that Love Grows.
Our 1st Love Story is
similar to my own and maybe yours too in that it is a High School Sweet Heart
Love Story.
Tell
us about your Love Story.
My Husband and I started dating October 27, 2001. I
began working at Burger Shack where he also worked. I started working there in
August and by October he had worked up enough of courage to ask me out. Our Journey led us to marriage on February
12, 2005. My husband decided to
join the Air Force. He left for basic training in August 2005. We were
stationed in Texas and in January 2006 we were stationed in NC back close to
our families. Being in the military
can be stressful upon a marriage due to the long hours, being away from your
family, and just the day-to-day life of being in the military. However, we
always focused on the positives and just enjoying the time that we could spend
together. Then in October 2007 we welcomed our son Aden into the world. He is a great mix of the two of us and
is our world! Military
marriages have a 3.7% divorce rate but today (2/12/12) we are celebrating our 7th wedding
Anniversary!
High School Sweethearts |
Wedding Day |
Family Addition : Aden |
Bobbie Jo and Brett |
What do you feel is the most important element of keeping your Marriage “Loving”?
My hubby is my best friend and when you
find that in your significant other then the love just comes along with itJ
How do you and your husband handle disagreements?
We
have come to the realization that what the other is saying is important. We
listen to each other’s point of view and meet in the middle. Like with any
relationship even getting ill at the other is normal from time to time but by
the end of the night we kiss goodnight no matter what!
How do you and your husband make time for one another?
We
both love to cook so we always enjoy cooking and grilling together almost every
day!
What do you feel are important characteristics or traits of a “Lasting Loving Marriage”.
- Always being there for the other NO matter What!
- Always be sure to let your s/o know how much you care. Sometimes just "I Love you" still gives you butterflies but also gives you that reassurance that you need!
Have you and your husband faced a problem? If so how did you overcome it?
We
all face some type problem in marriage whether it is big or small. We have
never faced any huge problems though just the small ones thank goodness. We
always try to compromise and understand each other in every situation. Our
viewpoint is that we were all made different so we are entitled to our independent
opinions and differences but we have to meet in the middle!
What advice do you think would have helped you
have a smoother marriage that you can pass to others?
When
you find the one you Love you will know. There is no perfect relationship but
there is a great love for each of us. A lasting loving marriage is very real!
Always try to understand one another and always let your spouse know what is
going on from your perspective. If there’s a doubt or something you are feeling
down or out about let them know. When you communicate with one another you will be able to
work through your issues. My hubby says “I Don’t know how to make you feel better,
what to change, or how to make you or things better if you don’t let me know.” Effectively communicating has been an important
element in our Loving Lasting Marriage; always let your spouse know!
I hope that you have been able to use National Marriage Week as a time to enhance your marriage . I plan to highlight two additional Love Stories this week with varying elements. I hope you are able to gain something useful from each of these stories.
Please continue to share these posts with others as well as contribute your own elements for a Loving Lasting Marriage.
Shalasha
I really enjoyed reading the posts on your blog. I would like to invite you to come on over to my blog and check it out. God bless, Lloyd
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